For so many of us, it can be hard to find a pair of jeans that fits just right.
Because of the years I spent working at a denim store, I know first hand that many women struggle with finding jeans they feel good in. It doesn’t seem to matter what size a woman wears. Denim is just one of those things that people have a hard time with. I watched women beat themselves up about how they looked as they tried on pair after pair of jeans. The search for the perfect pair of jeans is also complicated by the fact that most brands design their denim for a particular body shape, which most women don’t have.
As a short, curvy girl…I can assure you that most jeans are not designed with me in mind. I’ve learned a lot over the years about how to shop for denim, which is probably why I’ve accumulated quite the collection! I’m always on the hunt for brands that design their denim with the average woman in mind. One of the brands that “gets” this struggle is NYDJ. Granted, until recently, I hadn’t heard of them, but as soon as I looked into the company and their philosophy around denim, I was sold. All of their jeans are crafted with premium denim, so they fit well and feel almost as soft as sweatpants.
This year, NYDJ has launched the #FitToBe campaign, and they reached out to 58 women to help spread their message. I’m really proud that I am one of these women! Why 58 women? That number represents the number of sizes they offer (across petite, tall and plus). Considering that most brands offer sizes 24-32 in one length, that’s a big deal! The #FitToBe campaign emphasizes that regardless of your age or shape, their jeans will make a woman feel beautiful, confident, radiant and sexy.
As for me, I’m #FitToBe confident…but I’ll be honest, it’s always a work in progress!
Confidence is an important quality to possess in all aspects of life, including fashion. My mantra is that if you wear a style or trend with confidence, you can pull it off. That being said, I completely understand that like many things, having confidence in yourself is easier said than done. That’s why it’s always a work in progress for me.
Whenever I lack confidence in my own life (fashion or otherwise), it’s usually because in the moment, I’m comparing myself to other people. This is why they say, comparison is the thief of joy. The more I compare myself to other people, the more I feel badly about myself. Even though it’s human nature to compare yourself to others, doing so can really take your confidence down a few notches. This is the case in life and it’s the case in fashion, too.
Moral of the story? Don’t compare yourself to anyone else. Be confident, rock those skinny jeans…and just be happy with being you! Oh, and if your outfit turns out looking a bit like the Canadian Tuxedo, well – rock that too.
Photography by Jeff
Outfit Details:
Sweater – c/o NYDJ
Denim Vest – Gap (Similar)
Jeans – C/O NYDJ
Purse – Brave Leather (Similar)
Shoes – Aldo
Necklace – C/o Happiness Boutique
Do you consider yourself a confident person in life and/or fashion?
Alecz says
Isn’t it the most wonderful feeling, finding the perfect pair of jeans? I have one pair that I wear ALL THE TIME because they just fit right. Love these ones on you, and the necklace is a stunner!
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Jackie says
It feels amazing! Not gonna lie, I will just admire how good I look in a pair before leaving the store sometimes hah
Alexandra says
What a great post!! The outfit is super cute by the way, and I totally understand the curvy girl vs. appropriate jean fit battle. I’m glad that you addressed and that there are companies out there who are taking notice and catering to that! I’m totally feeling #FitToBe confident as well!! 🙂
Jackie says
I’m so glad! 🙂
Head to Toe Chic says
Love these jeans on you! Finding the perfect pair of jeans can be quite the challenge!
xo,
Angela
Jackie says
Thank you!! I couldn’t believe how well they fit…and I love that they’re ACTUALLY ankle length 😉
Deborah says
I definitely struggle with finding a good pair of jeans – I’m totally checking out NYDJ’s website for jeans! You are perfect for their #FitToBe campaign!!
Jackie says
I’d never think you’d have a hard time with jeans! Let me know if you find anything 🙂
Luci's Morsels says
I’ve always been turned off by the name of NYDJ, but it’s great to hear such a positive review of them for all of us shapes out there!
And your hair is on point! 🙂
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Jackie says
I hadn’t really heard of them before, so I didn’t really think much about the name. I just figured they were worth trying based on the fact that they catered to so many body types.
And thanks! 🙂
Kathleen says
Perfect jeans – they truly do look so flattering! You look beautiful as always 🙂
<3
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Jackie says
Thank you so much! 🙂
Tina says
Yay to finding jeans that fit well! You look lovely!
Tina
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Shannon says
So cute! I’m loving the shades of blue and that Fringe bag is so fun!
<3 Shannon
Upbeat Soles
Ivete says
I love your writing style, Jackie, and your message really resonates with me. Confidence really is our best accessory. And don’t get me started on how difficult it is for us short girls (with hips, and a bootie!) to find the right fitting jeans! These jeans look awesome on you! And I love the way you styled them with the heels and sweater. Totally on point, girlie!
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Amy Arnold says
You are so right – denim is the worst to shop for! This si so cool that they have so many fits, and you are the perfect choice to show this pair off!
Amy Ann
Straight A Style
Ashley says
THIS is how you do layers! This looks like so many elements but it’s actually just a few put together in a proportional way — such a clever take on the more traditional stripe & jeans look!
Xoxo,
Ashley || Sed Bona
Gabriella says
These jeans look like they were made for you! Such a good fit. I find it so hard to buy pants/denim, too. Always something off about one area! I love your bold lip, Jackie. So fun!
xx Gabriella
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Carly says
Your denim on denim look is lovely! It took me a long time to find the right place to get jeans that fit my body type, Express. Now I won’t buy jeans from anywhere else
Carly from Dresses & Denim
Jessica says
lovely outfit!
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Vale says
You look amazing, love your outfit ! I am confident most of the times, but also very insecure..it depends on my mood, really. Kisses
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Heba says
Looking great! I love the all blue/white look.
Heba xx || The Heba